This is a long and possibly uninteresting story, but it is an important one to me, so you have to read it anyway.
The first time I attempted a bachelor’s degree, I went to college immediately after high school, Fall of 1991. I ended the semester with a GPA of 0.71 (4 point scale). That’s not a typo, that’s what you get if you have two 3-credit D’s, two 3-credit F’s and a 2-credit C. (Interm Algebra, American Government, Latin I, English Comp, and Fitness for Living, respectively)
I won’t explain in detail why that happened, but I will mention the important part: My education, the degree, and thereby the classes, didn’t matter to me. There is a lesson there, but it’d be a distraction from my story, so we’ll move on.
A 0.71 GPA is an automatic academic suspension. So the following semester, I was suspended from taking classes at all. But that summer, I made an attempt to repair the damage: I re-took intermediate Algebra (as a summer evening class, no less, it met only once a week!) and replaced my prior grade of D with a B. CGPA: 1.14.
Then in the fall, I took a 1 credit course ”Intro to Library Science” I honestly don’t recall why, other than to pad my GPA a little further. CGPA: 1.20.
Then I took a “full load” in the spring of 1993: Pre-Calculus (5), English Composition (3), American Government (3), Electronics Survey (3). Not precisely a success: respectively: D, C, C, N. CGPA: 1.60. And another academic suspension.
Then I retook Latin I (Fall 1994) and got an A. Awesome, that raised my CGPA to 2.20. Which completely removed me from academic suspension and probation entirely. Finally, something good!
I followed up in the Spring of ‘95 with Latin II and got a B. CGPA: 2.30. The following fall (1995, Nelalvai is 2-3 months old!), I attempt Latin III, but withdraw (safely, so a grade of N). Final CGPA from the entire four-year fiasco: 2.30 (w/replacements).
Meanwhile, while my academics went up and down repeatedly, I started working at Best Buy in the summer of 1993. At the time, it was a significant increase for my income. I worked there a year before getting a position in a tech support department in the city government. The pay and hours were better and during the two years I worked there, I gave up on the degree entirely, and focused my attention on bringing a paycheck home. A big factor was simply I liked having an income and having a wife and daughter played a significant role in that point of view.
The position at the city government put enough experience (2.5 years!) under my belt I was able to get a salaried position in a department of a large university, where I worked for seven and a half years.
Then we made a mistake. My wife completed her doctorate in Biology in May 2003. For her to do her post-doctoral work, we needed to move to another city. All a good thing, significant achievements for her career. But we mistakenly thought we could make the move without lining up a job for me first. We had the idea that as a computer tech, there is always a position available. It didn’t work out that way. The nation was in the throes of the recession that is still being felt today, the market became very competitive and for a guy with experience, but lacking a degree, it became very challenging to obtain work.
I ended up either being unemployed or working near-minimum wage jobs the whole year. Yes, only a year. Because then we bailed out of the situation (our hindsight says we should have bailed sooner). The city we were living in had an incredibly higher cost of living than we had previously experienced, and we were rapidly racking up an unmanageable debt.
So we fled back to the town we moved from. Melalvai was able to get a post-doc position through her contacts in Biology, I acquired a part-time (but only 1 year) job at my old employer and started getting ourselves back on our feet.
I went from the part-time job at the university to a sales position at a movie rental chain, and got fed up with evil business practices and “palace politics” of the job. Combine that with an especially uncomfortable job interview (in an attempt to find something better):
I came to the realization that I would be stuck in crappy jobs forever if I didn’t get a degree.
We’re almost to the present, but not quite. The job interview made my decision. I started looking seriously at what it would take to put me through school: Financial Aid, etc.
I had a certain amount of loyal feeling to the university that employed me; I had had a good run of years of employment there. Also, it was a major university and would look decent on my resume. I examined their enrollment requirements, and the main relevant one was a 2.0 GPA minimum. Since I had brought my GPA up to 2.3 via replacing grades (back during the 4 year fiasco!), I figured there would be no problems.

I was wrong, as you can see above. It turns out the university had the most draconian method of calculating your GPA for purposes of admission. If you had taken a class twice, they counted BOTH grades in calculating your GPA. So instead of them saying I had 23 hours with a 2.30, they said I had 35 hours with a 1.686 (because they were including those F’s and D’s I had replaced with B’s and C’s). Despite it being a decade since I was in school, they rejected my application. I still have many choice words for this kind of bureaucratic nonsense…[1]
So applied at a local private college instead. THEY were able to calculate (its disturbing that a major institution isn’t capable of doing math…) my GPA correctly, and so despite them having the same minimum GPA, I met the 2.0 requirement with my correctly calculated 2.3 GPA. As it turns out, it may have been a better choice anyway. They are a smaller instution, with small class sizes, which means greater support from the instructors and a much more personal feel. I never feel like the support staff or faculty do not care about the students (a feeling I often got working at the university).
Today is the first day of my fifth semester at the private college. Every course (43 credit hours!) I’ve taken so far, I’ve gotten an A in. Obviously, I’m quite proud of this! And have some desire to give the university the bird: “See? I was a good risk. Your loss, not mine!” or something to that effect. CGPA at the private institution is 4.0. If I include the 4-year fiasco, my overall CGPA is: 3.41 (calculated the correct way). Calculated the way the state university did it, I have: 2.96. Ha!
I wanted to talk about how school is going now, but I also wanted the foundation of what my past situation was and at least an inkling of how much completing the degree matters to me written out first.
[1] I should add here that at the same time, they were bureaucratically screwing with my wife’s grant money, but that is an entirely different story.